“I was able to let go of my shyness by being someone completely different”
As a little girl I was very shy, my school report always stated that I needed a lot of confirmation and asked a lot of questions, even if I knew the answer. I put a lot of pressure on myself that everything had to be good, this made me block. Once I felt comfortable in a group, I chatted a lot. I thought it was fantastic to play in the school musical, I was able to let go of my shyness being someone completely different. Of course, I was nervous beforehand, but once I started it disappeared like snow in the sun. Also, in high school I liked the creative subjects the most, besides the languages drama and drawing were my best subjects.
“I didn’t realize I was already crossing my own limits.”
After high school I started a study Tourism and Recreation. I already saw myself as a receptionist or in an animation team. Once I had finished my study, I wasn’t so sure about that anymore. I didn’t want to go to work yet, so I studied Commercial Economics. I still didn’t really know what I wanted because this study was broad and I could use it in all directions. A perfectionist as I am, I completed all studies neatly within 4 years. I didn’t realize I was already crossing my limits. Going out had to continue, but also work and study. As a result, I was often ill, or went out overstimulated and get hyperventilation attacks in the pub.
My high sensitivity came to light a few years later. At first, I didn’t pay much attention to it, but at a certain point I couldn’t avoid it anymore and I started reading about HSP. The pieces of the puzzle fell into place more and more.
“I didn’t really want a completely different profession. But a different working environment in which there is room for me and my HSP.”
After my studies I worked for several companies. After living in the north of the Netherlands for a few years I moved to Overijssel to live with my husband. Not soon after that our son was born. When I lost my job due to a reorganization, I got the opportunity to take job coaching. I wanted to do something different with my career for some time, but I wasn’t quite sure what that would be. I ended up with the study to become a WMO-consultant and started this. In the meantime, I applied for other jobs. When the vacancy at Hooggevoelig heel gewoon came along, I knew immediately that this was my place. We work with a nice, small team and I can continue to develop myself by doing things that I like to do. So apparently, I didn’t really want a completely different profession. But a different working environment in which there is room for me and my HSP.
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